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March 30, 2008

Presenting our Beliefs in the Public Arena

Alan Wolfe of the Boisi Center for Religion and American Public Life recently invited Elder Clayton M.  Christensen, Area Authority, North America, Northeast, and a prominent Harvard Business School professor, to present a seminar on Mormons in American Politics.  Margaret Woolley Busse, a member of the Public Affairs Committee for Greater Boston, attended the conference, and has kindly agreed to share her learnings about how to present what we believe to the general public.

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As I listened to Elder Christensen present on the the topic of “Mormons and Public Life,” (in the wake of the Romney campaign), I found both his themes and his methodology for delivering them were great examples of effectively communicating our beliefs in a public arena.  Below are the highlights:

The importance of being able to clearly explain why Mormons consider themselves Christian while others do not.

Elder Christensen succinctly explained our beliefs about the Apostasy and the subsequent Restoration, and in a very diplomatic but also uncompromising way, explained how other Christians tied themselves to tenets of the Nicean Creed and various subsequent Reformation ideas, while we adhere to what we believe to be 1st century Christianity.  If more Mormons could articulate this narrative effectively (but not combatively), it would greatly help us as we contend with those calling us non-Christian.

The importance of articulating the difference between being truly religious vs. using the banner of religion as a means to gain power, incite hatred, and invoke violence.

He gave examples of people who declare themselves religious and have garnered power by doing so, but their actions reflect anything but (Ralph Reed of the Christian Right, who turned out had siphoned millions of dollars away as part of the Jack Abramoff scandal; Newt Gingrich, who it turned out was having an extra-marital affair at the same time he was prosecuting the Monica Lewinsky case; and the Islamic extremist who masterminded the horrific elementary school hostage situation in Chechnya a few years ago, and who, as it turned out, didn't know much about Islam at all).

Very often academics, the media, and general conversationalists, refer to "religious people" to include both of the aforementioned types.  Elder Christensen rightly defined being "Christian" as simply someone who "[has] love one to another" (John 13:35) and as James says, “[visits] the fatherless and the widows in their affliction and [keeps] himself unspotted from the world" (James 1:27).  As an addendum to the first learning, these attributes are what identifies one as Christian, not specific doctrinal beliefs.

The strong argument for religion working alongside democracy

He told a story of a friend of his who was a Fulbright scholar from China that had come here to study American democracy.  He concluded that democracy here functioned so well because we have a strong religious foundation. Because Americans have, at least historically, attended churches and synagogues regularly, they were taught again and again the importance of abiding by a certain moral code.  If one did not, not only would the law punish, but more importantly, so would God.

It is thus voluntary adherence to religiously-based values that keeps society in line, rather than the enforcement of a strict penal code.  The Chinese scholar concluded that without this religious foundation that has now seeped through all elements of our culture, a state trying out democracy will fall into corruption, chaos, and quite possibly anarchy, as no citizen would feel compelled to abide by a moral code.  In short, religion should not be considered as irrelevant--and possibly harmful--to our government, as many would like to assert, but instead key to its very existence.

The real role our Church plays in public life

Our church is involved in true political activism because we focus so strongly on strengthening families, and the family is the unit of society where people learn to be good and contributing citizens.  He said when we teach in Relief Society and in Priesthood quorum how to strengthen our families, that is political activism.  When we hold Family Home Evening once a week in our homes, that is political activism.

The effectiveness of using stories that emphasize people’s commonalities

Elder Christensen used compelling stories to begin each of the points he made, which grabbed the audience's attention and built on commonalities.  For example, after he had briefly told the Joseph Smith story, Elder Christensen told a story of his own, where a fellow student at Oxford to whom he had enthusiastically given a Book of Mormon, had returned the book a day later, saying “This story at the beginning of the book—the one about this guy Joseph Smith? That should be put at the back—it is simply too unbelievable for anyone to continue reading!”

Well, this is in fact what everyone in the room was probably thinking, so it made people feel that Elder Christensen could understand their viewpoint.  He continues, “So I said to myself, well is it really so unbelievable? So I went to the Bible and found many examples of young boys being called as prophets—Samuel, David, Daniel,” etc.  In telling this story, he re-affirmed his own belief in the Joseph Smith, while being empathetic and reasonable.  A reminder that before I launch into an argument that may be off-putting for some, I should begin with a story that helps people get comfortable and builds on our commonalities.

Can you think of other people/times where people have effectively shared what they believe with those that believe differently?

If you haven't had a chance to read Alan Wolfe's article Mormons and Money, I would encourage you to do so.  It is quite good.  Note, however, it does require a payment.

Related articles/posts:
Richard Bushman's Pew Center Forum speech Mormonism and Politics:  Are they compatible?
President Thomas S. Monson -- working with others
President Gordon B. Hinckley -- Friend of the media
Public Affairs project:  Mormonism 101
Leaven in the lump

 

March 23, 2008

Offering our Hands

Today in Church I heard a profound statement by Brother Bob Hohman who has participated in our church’s efforts to help victims of the flooding in the St. Louis area of Fenton and Valley Park, both cities in my stake. Read more about the story here: Missionaries Help Protect Flooded Communities.

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Brother Hohman said, in regards to sharing the gospel, “we must use our hearts, but we must also use our hands.”

This brother, with tears, then recounted his experience of the last week working beside our missionaries in yellow “Mormon Helping Hands” T -shirts. Because of the conspicuous yellow shirts, Brother Hohman was asked many times by community friends why the missionaries were there. He was able to say: “Because they care.”

Caring First -- that is how the Savior taught.

Then with more emotion this good brother said, “I wish everyday was Easter and everyday was Sunday.”

To commemorate Easter everyday, can we offer our hands "with" community friends?

In what ways have you been touched by working side by side with community friends?

How does this help you enjoy the fellowship of the community?

Learn more about the Mormon Helping Hands program by clicking here: Mormon Helping Hands

March 17, 2008

Caring First

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I have been in training to sell furniture. I work for a company that believes building rapport should come before all else. It is taboo in our store to start the conversation asking, “What brings you in the store?” or “what are you looking for?” Rather we are to get to know our customers, ask them about their interests and build common ground.

Our trainer wrote on the board:

“People don’t care what you know, until they know you care.”

Wow, what gospel truth spoken in a very secular setting. It reminded me of how the Savior taught by ministering to people. He always showed genuine caring before he preached.

People wanted to know what the Savior knew, because they knew He cared.

Consider something I read by Renee Olson on blacklds.org. She shares an example of how caring can make the difference.

Can you relate an experience where real caring helped build common ground and friendship?

March 08, 2008

Getting involved in local government

In rifling through the myriad articles on Romney's campaign, I found this article Mormons & Politics:  Romney inspires LDS members to get involved in government to be among my favorites.

On March 31, 1978, President Kimball spoke to a group of Regional Representatives on political and governmental matters, saying "We urge our members to do their civic duty and to assume their responsibilities as citizens in seeking solutions to the problems which beset our cities and communities."

That was nearly 30 years ago.

I have wanted to become more involved, but it was never quite a priority.

One of the upshots of Romney's campaign (realizing that we weren't quite as well-liked as we thought we were) has been for members of our church to become more involved in our communities.

If we initially become involved "to clarify who we are and what we believe", as this article states, so be it.

Because, in time, whether we become a precinct officer, run for the school board, or participate in some other fashion, I believe we will not only have clarified who we are, we will have also made a difference.  Perhaps most importantly, we will find that we belong in a way that we hadn't thought possible.

Related posts:
President Thomas S. Monson -- on working with others
Tabernacle on Trial
Boston Globe Op-Ed:  Romney, Mormons and Me
What we can learn from Ann Romney